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While most of us hope that what happens between 2 or 3 or 8 or 20 consenting adults would be no one else's business you should be aware of all laws that might prohibit certain sexual behavior. For example:

Do not have sex with or behave inappropriately around underage people.

Be careful about having sex in public - getting caught could not only be a cause of embarrassment but could be a criminal act - especially when done within certain distances of where children can be found (schools, playgrounds, etc). Some states will put you on a sexual offender list for these acts.

Be sure that you are engaging in consensual acts. NO means NO. STOP means STOP. Rape is a serious crime.

Also, be aware of your local and state laws that may prohibit certain sexual acts.

 

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Why is this publication so expensive? Simple. This is valuable information. While no guarantees are made, understanding this information and following this advice could get you laid quite often. And in some really cool ways! So it's worth the cost and it's a lot cheaper than other options. Plus, the high price leads to fewer sales and that means less competition for you!

 

CHAPTER 1

About this book...

So you want to be a bull.

A bull is a man who has sex with another man's wife (hotwife) with the husband's (cuckold's) permission and often while he watches. Sounds like fun, doesn't it? A different bed every night. Random phone calls begging for your immediate, sexual services. Being the envy of other men. Being lusted after by horny women. If only the work came with health insurance and Christmas bonuses it would be perfect.

Yet a lot of responsibility goes along with being a Good Bull. It isn't all fun and games. Not when you do it right. There is a real need for Good Bulls out there. Too many couples search in vain for a proper match. Too many couples end up frustrated after an encounter with a less-than-perfect bull. It's not as easy as dropping your pants and presenting a hard on.

Satisfaction with the situation can sometimes happen by accident. You want to get laid. The husband wants you to get laid. The wife wants to get laid. And so it all just gets done, right? Not always.

Rather than thinking of this arrangement as an isolated fuck session, consider it a lifestyle. A lifestyle is a sub-culture that affects some of your personal actions and how you interact with others. Swinging, for example, is a lifestyle. A lifestyle is a choice. You opted in and can opt out. But the difference between a lifestyle and random acts is that you recognize and respect it as a lifestyle and share that lifestyle with others. The bull/cuckold/hotwife arrangement (typically referred to as a cuckold relationship) can actually be considered a sub-lifestyle of swinging. And the cuckold relationship can have its very own sub-lifestyles (bdsm or femdom, for examples). As with any lifestyle there are modes of conduct that include manners and other unwritten rules. The only penalty for breaking these rules would be that one would get laid less.

Any guy who can get it up and get himself involved with a couple can be referred to as a bull. But this book will make it much more complicated than that! This book will show you how to be a Good Bull. Being a Good Bull raises your experiences to an art form. It isn't only about having decent sex. It's about knowing one's role in the situation, knowing the other people's roles and working at keeping everyone (including you) satisfied with the situation.

If you are in your 20s, have rippling abs, a muscular frame and a 10-inch tool, you should have no problem getting laid by a different woman every night (until you're at least 30). This book is for the rest of us guys. The guys who might be a little overweight, a little older or a little less *cough, cough* endowed. I'm telling you right now that you do not have to be a Greek god to be a successful bull. You just need to learn some previously unwritten rules, work on a new attitude and master a few tricks.

You're probably a single guy (or a married guy with a single guy attitude). No insult intended (well, maybe a little bit), but most single guys are just fucking full of themselves. They don't care very much about anything but their cocks and conquests. But a cuckold arrangement isn't only a conquest. The couple, by definition, is in a committed relationship. They share finances, a home, probably children. They have, as a couple, a standing in their community. Family and friends, jobs, church (surprisingly, lots of them have churches). And they can be risking all of that if their secret sex lives are exposed.

Less than a third of cuckold couples have shared their lifestyle with anyone outside of that lifestyle. When it is shared it is, most often, only by the hotwife with her closest friends (which can actually be a turn-on to some cucks). Most of these other couples intend and hope to keep it a secret forever. If the couple is somehow outed, it should be their choice, not yours.